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Flip the Perspective: Don’t complain? Really?

The following was a bulletin insert for the young people at Calvary Assembly on the topic of complaining. It is filed under the Creative Commons license, meaning you can take it, use it, and remix it. Just give me a thanks if you do.

…A Word from Jonathan

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There is nothing better in the morning than taking a nice, long, hot shower.  This morning, I woke up frustrated, as the water for my shower was cold.  Not freezing cold, but cold enough to make me uncomfortable.  I don’t know if it was because it was a colder night and the pipes were cold, or what the problem was, but it was an unpleasant way to start my day.

I wanted to call my landlord and tell him to get it fixed, but it seemed a bit too soon.  Yes, I do pay my rent and heating bill on time every month, and I had a whole host of reasons as to why I should have hot water every morning.

As I was standing in the cold shower, attempting to wash myself quicker than normal, I thought back to the verse found in Philippians 2:14 that says, “Do everything without complaining or arguing.”  To me, this seems like a ridiculous standard.  Really? Everything without complaining?  Think of the irony - I’m actually complaining about this being too high of a standard!

Then I thought about putting my complaint into perspective.  According to a recent health care statistic, over 884 million people around the world do not have access to clean drinking water.  For us, we can drink the water we bathe in.  Others can’t even find safe water to drink!  To think how insanely blessed we are can go a long way in helping to stop our useless complaining.

Maybe you complain about school because your teacher is treating you unfairly or you feel you are receiving too much homework.  But if you flip your perspective, you can be thankful that you are getting a solid education that will provide you a variety of opportunities for your future.  Maybe you complain because your parents seem like ridiculous human beings.  Next time it seems this way, think of how many times you have acted irrationally and maybe this can help allow you to give some grace to your parents.

As for me, I think I’ll go downstairs and turn the water heater up a notch and leave my landlord out of it.  Complaining without first trying to help the solution on our own usually doesn’t help anyone.

Thoughts?

How Big is Your Dance Floor?

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“Something is wrong with me. I am stained because of my past mistakes.  I am not able to be repaired.  I am gross.  I am a sinner.”

I have a friend who had sex before she was married.  She made a bad choice one night that completely rocked her life.  Because she had heard her whole life that this was a sin unlike any other, she could not forgive herself, no matter what she tried.  In fact, it changed everything about her being.  Whenever she was interacting with other people, she always felt like she was being judged.  She began to think that everyone else around her was being fake, even when they weren’t.  She felt insecure anytime her boyfriend would go and talk to any other woman.  She was becoming a person completely different from the joyous person she had once been.

The mistake she made one night consumed her.

Her guilt was turning her into a completely different person.

You see, any guilt beyond whatever brings us to free repentance is a false guilt that usually leads to us feeling worthless.

Completely worthless.

And this is more of a hindrance to us being a light in the world than the actual wrongdoings in our past.

Because when our conviction is taken too far, it turns to guilt.  God’s love is not dependent on how good we are, how bright we are, how caring we are, or even how well we love.  God loves us because we are.

Last week at our youth gathering, we made a dance video that we showed in church.  The young people had a great time filming it and we had a phenomenal service.  When we first started filming the video, I announced, “Anyone who wants to dance, go ahead out on the dance floor and show us what you got”.

As expected, no one moved.

But I prompted them and got a couple kids to do it.  Then, a couple more kids.  Soon enough, everyone wanted to jump in and we had a great time, as well as a great video (coming soon).

The way we can conquer guilt is much the same way.  Do you realize the freedom we have in Christ? Christianity is not just a set of restrictions and a “do” and “do not” list.  What is more important to God is not our perfection, as if that were possible, but our understanding that the world rests on God’s shoulders and that God loves us despite our many flaws.

There is an old hymn I recently introduced at our church called “How Deep the Father’s Love for Us”.  The modified lyrics say:

Behold the man upon the cross

My guilt upon his shoulders

It was my sin that held him there

His dying breath has brought me life

God took up our shame and our guilt with one fellow swoop with His Son.  Jesus came and died for all, that we might have life forever with him and freedom from guilt and bondage to sin (Romans 6:10).

The Bible says:

Nothing can separate us from God’s love–not life or death, not angels or spirits, not the present or the future, and not powers above or powers below. Nothing in all creation can separate us from God’s love for us in Christ Jesus our Lord!

Nothing can separate us from God’s love for us.

Nothing.

And that is why I pose this question: “How Big Is Your Dance Floor?”  Because God wants you to experience freedom.  He wants your dance floor to be huge!

Stop beating yourself up for past sin.  God doesn’t want you to live that way.  There is freedom in Jesus.

Dance.

For further exploration, watch this great story from Rob Bell:

This was one half of my discussion with our young people last night, with the other half dealing with conviction.  The notes can be downloaded for free here.  All my writings are written under the Creative Commons license, so feel free to re-make them yourself. Just leave me a shout out below if you do. :)

We also listened to the following song for a quiet reflection at the end of the teaching.  It may behoove you to do the same.

Athletes Promoting Their God

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For as long as I’ve lived, I can remember athletes thanking God after sporting events during postgame interviews.  From Kurt Warner talking of Jesus Christ after a successful game to teams praying after the game, people’s religion and faith is visible in sports.  For every person, this draws some sort of different response.  I remember when I was younger, I used to idolize players who would speak about their faith in Christ.  I went to a basketball camp put on by FCA (Fellowship of Christian Athletes) and lead by Charlie Ward, who at that time was the starting point guard for the New York Knicks. He shared how Jesus had transformed his life and now the least he could do was tell others about that hope.  When I was in middle school (prior to this experience in high school), I helped start an FCA chapter that ended up growing into a ministry of around 100 kids! I have no idea where it is at today, but the fact remains that athletes and athletics can have a real way of connecting people, as well as an easy way to get jocks to gather and take 10 minutes to listen to a successful athlete speak.

A couple of weeks ago, Tim Tebow was on the front cover of Sports Illustrated.  For the ignorant sports follower, Tebow is the quarterback at the University of Florida and has lead the Gators to two National Championships, as well as won the Heisman Trophy (and arguably should have won it twice).  The cover story, which you can read here, essentially tells of Tim’s off the field faith stories.  It starts with how Tim was recommended to be aborted by the doctors for medical reasons and progresses to tell of Tim sharing Jesus with his team and to convicts in prisons.  The players on his team tell that he does not ram his faith down anyone’s throat, but simply wants to be recognized for the good he is doing, not as a religious zealot.

As I’ve grown up, I can sometimes respond too cynically or judgmental about others and their faith expressions, especially Christians. I often get annoyed at sports players talking about faith.  Sometimes it is the cliche (”I’d just like to thank God for…”) and sometimes is over the top (players talking about God when a completely different question has been asked).  However, to let a platform and level of respect from so many slip by you without sharing something that has changed your life would also be terrible.  This brought me to the question of, “Ideally, how much should athletes use their platform (big or small) to share their life-changing faith?”

In my mind, everything is balance.  If you talk about Jesus every time someone tries to talk to you about your strategy in the game, it can be annoying.  However, in a position where you are as big as many celebrities (like Tebow or Kurt Warner), I do believe it is important to share of the “hope that lies within.”

But I also want to take a look at the comments people left in response to the Tebow article.  A lot of the article was about Tebow’s father, who is a missionary in the Philippines who has helped start 10,000 churches (I’m at 1…geez!) and an orphanage that Tim famously went down to help kids rather than party with his teammates for Spring Break.  You can read them all here, but I want to post some of them below so that you can understand people’s passion when it comes to a response about the Christian faith and our expression of it.  Sports Illustrated of course can only give a sample of what comes back from a story, but there was basically only one positive response to this story on the greatest college quarterback in the game.

I am an Oklahoma fan, and when I attended the BCS championship game in January, I said more than once, “I hate Tim #$%!#$% Tebow.” After reading your article (You Gotta Love Tim Tebow, July 27) and knowing the impact that guys like him have had on my own life as a sometimes struggling Christian and recovering drug addict and alcoholic, all I can say is that this world needs more Tim Tebows—OU nemesis or not.
Jeremy Martin, Tulsa

You gotta love Tim Tebow? I sure don’t! His message of literal Christian fundamentalism is wreaking havoc on women, gays and nonbelievers all over the world. How about spreading a message of redemption and hope without the religious intolerance? That would be a Tim Tebow I could love!
Michael Rozzen, San Diego

I am a Christian. However, I dislike it when athletes claim God is on their side, as Tebow did before the national championship game against Oklahoma. Does God really care about the outcome of a football game? I think this kind of belief diminishes my God and heaps inevitable ridicule on my faith.
Roberto Pacheco, Miami

On the Bob Tebow Evangelistic Association website, it is estimated that 75% of Filipinos have never once heard the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Given that Filipinos are 80% Roman Catholic, the target of the ministry is obvious. And while Bob, Tim’s father, may strike a warm, inclusive note in an interview, his own website does not, stating, “We reject the modern ecumenical movement.” In other words, when it comes to salvation, Catholics need not apply. Tim is featured prominently on his father’s website. So, no, I don’t gotta love Tim Tebow.
Sean O’Brien, Milwaukee

Your story mentions “an embarrassing string of arrests” for the Florida football team. In fact, the team has had 24 arrests in the past four years. Until the Florida players’ actions more closely reflect their leader’s values, Tebow’s exhortations ring hollow.
Kathryn Schuessler
Mishawaka, Ind.

Now we have another quarterback besides Kurt Warner telling us during postgame interviews that he owes every great thing that happens for him on a football field to his faith in Jesus. I knew there had to be a reason why the Almighty included a mute button on my remote control.
Arthur Troyer
Vancouver, Wash.

It was refreshing to see a Christian’s faith chronicled so richly and without ridicule.
Lori Arnold, Santee, Calif.

Wow! Those are some intense responses, eh? That is exactly what I wanted to draw to your attention.  The first comment about Tebow being an inspiration for a recovering addict and someone who struggles with their faith was encouraging to read.  The second comment is a criticism of Tebow’s fundamental Christian faith, of which his father talks about believing in the Left Behind-type rapture, Creationism (literal 6 day Creation), and I would also assume would take a very conservative approach to woman’s role in the church.  Now, you can call yourself a follower of Christ and not subscribe to any of these things and I think we can see the point of the comment and the harm of Christian fundamentalism.  I see how it affects so many people in my context here in Lancaster, PA, one of the most religious places in the U.S.  A lot of times we push people away with what we are saying, rather than helping them draw closer to the Kingdom of God.

The third comment disapproves of Tebow for saying God is on the Gator’s side.  Yes, this was a very dumb comment and I would also agree that people who speak like this make it harder to tell people about the love that Christ offers us all.  No one wants to listen to unbelievable Christians.  I’m also pretty convinced that God does not care about the outcome of the game, even if we pray that He intervenes.  The next comment that comes is a criticism that Tebow and his father’s ministry is simply trying to convert Catholics to Protestant views.  Again, I can see how that could draw criticism, but I will also say that Catholics and Protestant’s faiths do seem to look very different from my experiences.  If you thought that the ministry was sharing Christ’s good news with Catholics and you were a professing Catholic though, I could see how you could get testy.  The next person, Arthur, tells of his experience that I think most people think when they hear Christian athletes tell of their faith: annoying.

This brings about many questions for me as a follower of Christ.  What is my reaction to Christians on television who are sharing their faith? Do I roll my eyes or am I inspired?  Obviously those that pray for God on their side or for God to somehow affect the game are pretty ludicrous, but I have to admit to Christian athletes playing a positive role in my faith development (and many others).  What about those of us who are not superstar athletes?  When do we use our platform at work or with our friends?  Are we the annoying person who tries to talk about their faith all the time or are we living a life that inspires others to help those in need? Are we helping point people to Christ or are we putting up more walls than pointing people towards Jesus of Nazareth’s way?

I’m not going to criticize Tim Tebow or any other Christian for their sharing of their faith, especially considering he just turned 22.  I can’t imagine handling the spotlight like he has and with as few mistakes as he has made.  However, what I am taking away from the comments of the SI readers is that I need to be doing a lot of good in the world to help turn heads, rather than just tell them that Jesus wants to simply enter their heart.

Questions Video: Thoughts from a Longtime Follower of Christ

Matthew Paul Turner-On Questions from Cross Point Church on Vimeo.

The mystery of God has become the single most important aspect of my faith over the past few months.  I continue to desire to learn more about God every day and understand His goodness, but at the same time, I end up at the end of my days being drawn closer to the Divine not by the answers I’ve received, but instead by the things God has left purposefully ambiguous.  It is hard to reflect on God’s goodness when we are living in a state where we don’t know what is next or when we are down in the dumps about our job (or lack thereof) or when our neighbor is dying of cancer.  However, it is reassuring to know that no matter what we are thinking or feeling, God is God.  I had a friend share some thoughts with me this week about how it is so easy for him (and all of us) to base our feelings off of our current situation. We ask, “How could God let this happen?” First off, God wants us to ask these questions!  The Bible is filled, front to back, with people asking why God is doing things the way He is and for me that is really encouraging.  It is reassuring to know that God wants to hear us yell at him and praise him depending on our circumstances and how we are feeling.  However, it was good for me to reflect that when we are in a rough situation or grieving for someone else’s, we often times can begin to put ourselves in the center of the universe rather than the Divine.  I do not mean to be insensitive as I know the pain and hurt we all observe, but at the same time, it was a real humbling realization for me to know that God is in control and loudly hears the cries of the oppressed.

If you leave with one point from this video, though, make sure that it is that it is OK to go to sleep at night without all the answers.  Any theologian who continues to claim truth in every realm of life from God or the Bible is probably in danger of legalism rather than simply remaining awestruck by the loving, omniscient God of the Universe.

My hope is that this video resonates as loudly for you as it did for me.

Regina Spektor Laughs With God in New Single

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Regina Spektor, a folk pianist with traces of hip hop, classical, and jazz all rolled into one, has the voice of a goddess.  She is releasing her new album entitled, “Far” on June 23rd (yes…4 days!) which can be streamed now at Regina’s Myspace.  I am definitely digging the album after my first few listens through and will be purchasing it on Tuesday.  Also, below is her new single called “Laughing With” which has some very nice speculations into who God is and who God is not.  I could pull out a ton of truth out of this song, but I will leave the song speak for itself rather than share my thoughts.  Feel free to share yours though!

Lyrics:

No one laughs at God in a hospital
No one laughs at God in a war
No one’s laughing at God
When they’re starving or freezing or so very poor

No one laughs at God when the doctor calls
After some routine tests
No one’s laughing at God
when it’s gotten real late
And their kid’s not back from that party yet

No one laughs at God when their airplane
Starts to uncontrollably shake
No one’s laughing at God
When they see the one they love hand in hand
with someone else and they hope that they’re mistaken
No one laughs at God when the cops knock on their door
And they say “We’ve got some bad new, sir,”
No one’s laughing at God
When there’s a famine, fire or flood

But God can be funny
At a cocktail party while listening to a good God-themed joke or
When the crazies say he hates us
and they get so red in the head
You think that they’re about to choke
God can be funny
When told he’ll give you money if you just pray the right way
And when presented like a genie
Who does magic like Houdini
Or grants wishes like Jiminy Cricket and Santa Claus

God can be so hilarious
Ha ha, ha ha

No one laughs at God in a hospital
No one laughs at God in a war
No one’s laughing at God
when they’ve lost all they got
And they don’t know what for

No one laughs at God on the day they realize
that the last sight they’ll ever see is a pair of hateful eyes
No one’s laughing at God
When they’re saying their goodbyes

But God can be funny
At a cocktail party while listening to a good God-themed joke or
When the crazies say he hates us and they get so red in the head
you think that they’re about to choke
God can be funny
When told he’ll give you money if you just pray the right way
And when presented like a genie
Who does magic like Houdini
Or grants wishes like Jiminy Cricket and Santa Claus
God can be so hilarious

No one laughs at God in a hospital
No one laughs at God in a war
(repeat)
No one’s laughing at God in a hospital
No one’s laughing at God in a war

No one’s laughing at God
When they’re starving or freezing or so very poor

No one’s laughing at God
No one’s laughing at God
No one’s laughing at God

We’re all laughing with God.

“Does Satan Exist” ABC Special

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Airing as a special on ABC a few nights ago, different thinkers gathered to discuss the existence of Satan.  I found the discussion pretty interesting (although I will warn you it is long).  Many of my readers who are followers of Christ might be quick to jump on the “truth” coming from Mark Driscoll, but each member says things that point away from the truth and each of them has Read More »

Barna Group Consistently Delivers

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I regularly look to the Barna Group for interesting (and correctly conducted) market research on broad strokes of faith.  I studied and was very close with a professor in college who worked for Apple’s market research dept (and therefore quoted Steve Jobs way too much - ha!), so all market research intrigues me.  Here is a link to a story that is pretty interesting, but GO to this site and click around.  Sometimes it can seem like you know the trends of people’s belief systems, but statistics don’t lie.  That’s the beauty of it.  Enjoy.

http://www.barna.org/barna-update/article/12-faithspirituality/15-christianity-is-no-longer-americans-default-faith.

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